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Many people have not yet realized that within our society the ways in which we think towards each, speak to each other and
act towards each other are very abusive. We some how missed the realization that emotional pain begins in our brains {right
side} and thus causes more damage then anything else can, when out of balance. Our emotional brain causes much of the physical
illness we have on the earth today, and all of the emotional illnesses.
Our brain runs our bodies thus without it working properly we are missing a great deal. Many abuses cause physical pain and
injury, but all abuses cause emotional pain and the hardest part to heal within an abuse victim is the emotional pain left
from the horrid experience.
We all recognize to some degree that Physical and Sexual Abuse exist,
but what about:
Verbal Abuse,
Psychic Abuse,
Ritual Abuse
and
Emotional Abuse.
Below are some of the most commonly used abuses and if we are honest with ourselves we will see clearly that we all need to
change in order to heal ourselves and the world we live in and most of all our children and future generations:
PHYSICAL ABUSE
Physical Abuse is any form of touching {punching, use of a material object of any kind, kicking, physical restraints of any
kind, beating, slapping around the head} in anger, frustration, violence, or negativity. {and more}
SEXUAL ABUSE:
Sexual abuse is any form of unwanted sexual attention, (examples: seduction, verbal sexual harassment, child molestation,
child pornography, rape ect.)
VERBAL ABUSE:
Verbal abuse is any form of degradation, humiliation, or threats. This includes all forms of gossip, lies, and/or verbal manipulation,
such as:
Covert or double messages, brainwashing, intimidation, degradation and humiliation.
PSYCHIC ABUSE
Physic Abuse is in the form of silent and verbal manipulative head games,
Peer-pressure, mental seduction, (sexual, material, emotional), covert or double messages, brainwashing, degradation, humiliation,
silent judgments, jealousy, isolation, and mental intimidation. Ignoring while pretending to be listening, peer pressure,
material, emotional or sexual seduction, alienation of affections, neglect, brainwashing, and covert messages are the most
commonly used on a daily basis in our lives. We are just beginning to realize the damage done by this form of thinking. Silent
hatred {racism, jealousy, resentment, judgments ect. }, are also included in this abuses.
Road Rage for instance.
It’s done daily and causes grave harm to anyone involved but how often do we look at the emotional impact of Road Rage.
If no physical or material damage was done are we opened eyed to the fact that some emotional damage was done.
If I cuss you out and call you degrading names, do you not feel hurt or angered emotionally?
If I carry that negative emotion into my day do I not make mistakes due to it?
RITUAL OR RELIGIOUS ABUSE
Ritual Abuse is when any Godly belief system is being used to control, intimidate, seduce or change another's free will to
believe whatever they choose to believe -OR- when one is being used in any form of religious or coltish ceremony against one's
belief such as: verbal or physic brainwashing, sexual seduction, emotional seduction, ceremonial games, bribery, and more.
Ritual Abuse comes in many forms:
Satanism:
Practising the Ten Commandments Backwards
Examples:
The Tenth Commandment is “Though Shalt Not Kill.” Satanic perception of this law is: “Thou Shalt Kill.”
--- or another example --- “Though Shalt Not Lie”
Satanic Followers again perceive this rule to read: “Though Shalt Lie.” These backward laws can be found on the
back page of The Satanic Bible.
Black Magic:
Magic preformed with only lust, selfishness and greed for motivators, preformed only for self- gain, with no regard as to
what happens to others or our world and universe.
Ritualistic Ceremonies conducted to gain control or harm others, through fear and major head games.
I searched the web for statistics on abuse. I found a great deal and most do not match in numbers or percentages. Love Cry’s
estimates are much higher as we deal with those who never report their abuses to the authorities on a daily basis.
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Physical abuse: In 1998, about one third (31%) of investigations involved physical abuse as the primary reason for the investigation.
Physical abuse was confirmed in about one third (34 %) of these investigations, a rate of 2.25 cases of confirmed physical
abuse for every 1,000 children in Canada.
Sexual abuse: One in ten (10%) investigations in 1998 involved sexual abuse as the primary reason for the investigation. Sexual
abuse was confirmed in more than one third (38%) of these cases, a rate of 0.86 cases per 1,000 children.
Neglect: Neglect was the primary reason for investigation in 40% of all cases in 1998. Neglect was confirmed in 43% of these
cases, a rate of 3.66 cases per 1,000 children.
Emotional maltreatment: In 1998, 19% of all investigations involved emotional maltreatment as the primary reason for the investigation.
Emotional maltreatment was confirmed in more than half (54%) of these cases, a rate of 2.20 cases per 1,000 children.
Statistics below found at :
Child Abuse: A fact sheet from the Department of Justice Canada
http://www.justice.gc.ca/en/ps/fm/childafs.html
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Child protection
In 1992, child protection authorities put about 40,000 Canadian children into foster care or other settings away from their
home. In many of these cases, abuse was a factor.
In Ontario in 1993, Children's Aid Society investigated over 13,000 cases of child physical abuse. This is compared to 3,546
ten years earlier. Children 3 years old or younger are most often investigated for neglect. Children 12 to 15 years old are
most often investigated for physical abuse.
Information on abusers
In a national study, abused women reported that their partners had also abused their children:
physically – 26% of the time
psychologically – 48% of the time
sexually – 7% of the time
Another study reported that almost all sexual abusers of both boys and girls are heterosexual males. Children know their abuser
in over eight out of ten cases. More than four out of ten are fathers or father figures.
More than one in four lesbian, gay and bisexual youth go through violence at home after they tell their family about their
sexuality.
Above Information found at:
Springtide Resources
http://www.womanabuseprevention.com/html/question__6.html
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World Wid Child Abuse Statistics:
Some Worldwide Child Abuse Statistics
Worldwide, approximately 40 million children are subjected to child abuse each year (WHO, 20014).
Suicide is the third leading cause of death in adolescents around the world (WHO, 20025).
One study revealed that about 30% of all severely disabled children relegated to special homes in the Ukraine died before
they reached 18 years of age (Human Rights Watch, 20016).
UNICEF estimates that two million children died as a result of armed conflict during a recent 10-year period, and that another
six million were injured or disabled (Human Right Watch, 20017).
In Canada, the U.S. and Mexico, over 6.5 million children annually are exposed to unwanted sexual materials over the Internet;
over 1.7 million of these report distress over exposure to these materials (Estes & Weiner, 20018).
Each year, approximately one million more children around the world are introduced into commercial sexual exploitation (Casa
Alianza, 20019).
Sexual abuse statistics vary between countries and reports, but are consistently alarming: One country's research indicates
that up to 36% of girls and 29% of boys have suffered child sexual abuse; another study reveals up to 46% of girls and 20%
of boys have experienced sexual coercion (The 57th session of the UN Commission on Human Rights10).
Child Abuse Effects
Darlene Barriere
http://www.child-abuse-effects.com/child-abuse-statistics.html
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